The Press
June 28 2003
Being Peter
by Matt Conway
As pressure builds around the
Christchurch Civic Creche case, Peter Ellis refuses to be cowed by his
child-abuse convictions, or life generally. In his most candid interview since
leaving prison, he talks to Matt Conway.
Peter Ellis steps into jandals, throws on a jersey
and heads out into the night. The nearest convenience store is only a few
hundred metres away. For a conspicuous convicted paedophile, this could be a
furtive dash.
Not for Ellis. At a time when known child molesters are being flushed out and
vilified by communities, the public face of the Christchurch Civic Creche
scandal is happy to go for a stroll. Even this week, amid a renewed media
clamour as the latest bid to clear his name surged into Parliament on the
coat-tails of 140 famous New Zealanders. A retired High Court judge and two former
Prime Ministers are among luminaries to have signed a petition calling for a
royal commission of inquiry.
"I had some anonymity three months ago," Ellis says. "Now people
know what I look like again. Every- one's looking. They do it nicely, no hard,
horrible stares. It just brings everything crashing back down on you."
In 1993 the creche staffer was found guilty of abusing seven children in his
care (one complainant later said she had lied, and the relevant convictions
were quashed). He served two-thirds of a 10-year sentence.
How Ellis has lived since getting out of jail in February 2000, and his
repatriation to Christchurch, have gone virtually
unnoticed next to the twists and turns of the case.
The Press went looking for who Peter Hugh McGregor Ellis had become after 12
years in the eye of the storm. Now 45, he invited us to his home and shared,
over several hours, his thoughts on subjects as diverse as parenting,
spirituality, sexuality, and life ambitions.
We saw his talent for art and devotion to animals. We heard his explanation for
why he played the smutty provocateur with some of his former creche workmates.
And we asked, after all that has happened, how he now feels about children.
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Peter Ellis occupies a modern studio apartment above a cafe in the south of
Christchurch. He insists the exact location go unpublished to protect his
landlady, who owns the cafe, from any fallout.
The space is a homely mix of pets, furnishings, leafy plants, books, and
bric-a-brac. One of his pastimes is finding curios in second-hand shops.
A slab of wood fixed over the door has "ellis" wundaland"
burnt into it.
He lives on a benefit with two zebra finches, a persian
cat called Monty, and five canaries: Andy, Ziggy, Noeleen, Hattie, and Lizzard
Woman. Everyone seems to get on.
Ellis is bisexual, as he has always been, but claims to have curbed the lewd behaviour
he delighted in shocking his former creche colleagues with.
"Gay people probably are a little bit more outrageous, a little bit more
flamboyant, because it's a defence mechanism. We're a little bit sharp with our
tongues, we're a little bit double comparative (quick
on the innuendo). For me, I actually was good at it, so I was perhaps a little
sharper, went more over the top."
He says he got to the stage where he stopped using it as a foil and started
pushing the boundaries.
"Straight people feel that they have a right to ask gay people about what
they did the night before. It's almost like a gay person has a sign over them 'yes,
you can ask what I did last night'. . . It's not right. They do not have those
rights.
"So for me, when people asked me what was going on in my life, I got to
the stage where I said 'stuff you, here it is'. The majority of it was true.
Sometimes, if it made the story better, I would embellish."
Ellis says he adopted a "what can I do to shock?" attitude.
Today, Ellis claims to be subdued on that score. He says he occasionally buses
to Christchurch's Chameleon club to meet men.
"I'd like a relationship . . . it will be a man in my life."
But he says he hasn't pushed it because of the baggage of his legal battle.
"At the end of the day, the Civic (case) can be all-consuming . . . I live
it, eat it, and breathe it. You don't get a chance to leave it behind.
"People might think they're big enough and brave enough to be my partner.
There's no room."
Loneliness is not a factor.
"I enjoy my own company. That's not to say I'm not gregarious and nattery. But, you know, I'm quite happy. I can exist on my
own."
Against one wall of his apartment is a claw-foot bath, stylishly painted in
teal and gold. Even the taps are splashed in gold. On the floor is a pot of
incense sticks. A yellow Teletubby toy sits on the
floor and Lladro animals on the shelves; a lion, a
bear, a tiger, and two penguins. Two small novelty chocolate penises, testicles
adorned with hundreds and thousands sit unopened in cellophone
wrapping, on a sidetable near the door. He rolls his
eyes in reference to what was an off beat birthday present.
Ellis flicks between TV channels to catch news coverage of the petition. He is
"overwhelmed and humbled" by this latest lofty swell of support.
The walk to the convenience store shows him winning favour with ordinary,
hard-working Kiwis, too.
Ellis waves at a truck driving by. It is the local milkman, who waves back.
At the store, the young woman behind the counter banters with Ellis, obviously
aware of his notoriety. She slides across his favoured brand of cigarettes
almost before he asks.
Walking out, Ellis sees the milkman carrying a stack of egg cartons.
"Want me to sign those for you?" Ellis jokes. The milkie
laughs. "Sure, why not."
Ellis says the reaction was similarly positive when news of the petition broke
three weeks ago. People kept approaching him while he shopped at Hornby, asking where they could sign.
"I feel like apiece of polished brass, having been patted and stroked all
day," he told The Press at the time.
It would be wrong to regard these fleeting displays of warmth alone as
indicative of a significant shift in public sympathy, given the intractable
clash of views over the case.
But when you put that support alongside the petition's high-calibre signatories
and Ellis's own assertion that he hasn't been seriously hassled since leaving
prison, the question has to be asked: as Justice Minister Phil Goff resists the
growing call for a full inquiry, is Ellis receiving a people's pardon?
The room shudders as trucks rumble past. None of the pictures fall off the
wall, among them three pencil drawings by Ellis. "I did art at school but
I failed," he says. "I was too busy being busy."
One is of Marilyn Monroe, the familiar, wide-eyed, pouty
pose. Another features two King Charles spaniels, with doleful brown eyes,
lazing by a pond on a sunny day, ringed by daisies and red hot pokers.
Books on the floor throw up an irony: one of his favourite authors is Jonathan Kellerman, whose plots revolve around a crime-busting child
psychologist.
Ellis moved back to Christchurch 15 months ago, after spending his first two
years out of prison with his mother, Lesley, at Leithfield
Beach, near Amberley.
He "can only applaud" the small coastal community for making him
welcome.
Ellis says when he first arrived, a young mother
approached him with a baby in her backpack. "She said the Leithfield parents talked about it at school and they
reckoned I was hard done by."
It was an extension of his prison experience. Not once, Ellis says, was he
bashed or threatened inside. He credits this to prison guards who sat through
the creche case, felt he was wrongly convicted, and spread the word. That, and
"the hard nuts" Ellis spent time with in Paparua
Prison's maximum security wing, who he says were similarly persuaded of his
innocence.
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It's difficult to tell how Ellis's life might have turned out if he hadn't gone
down for abusing creche kiddies. "I was probably heading to be Julian
Clary (the outrageously camp British television star)."
And now? "For all the squawks and shrieks about
my being outrageous and flamboyant, I'm actually a very conservative
person," he says.
Prison, he says, tempered his excesses.
"I'm perhaps not as spontaneous as I used to be . . . you've got to bear
in mind I was 28 (when he started at the creche). I was a young person. If I'm
still doing the same things at 45, for God's sake, then perhaps I'd need a
psych report. But I'm not. I've seen a hell of a lot of things go under the
bridge. I personally know murderers. I personally know politicians. I personally
know all sorts of different things."
Ellis follows horse racing but doesn't gamble, listens to gay-bashing shock
jocks on radio station The Rock ("I don't mind telling gay jokes"),
and refuses to ,get a computer, in part because he
fears someone could set him up by sending him Internet pornography.
It is impossible not to detect a certain serenity, a
spiritual calm, about Ellis.
"It comes from being innocent. It comes from being able to lie straight in
bed to go to sleep at night. I know my conscience isn't troubled. How about yours, Mr Goff?"
Humour remains an undiminished part of his repertoire. When asked what he
aspires to, he fires back "Minister of Justice". This sets him off in
a raucous cackle. When Ellis laughs, he grabs for air between yelps, as if
someone is standing on his chest.
Pressed for a serious answer, he at first expresses a desire to work in the
prison system ("I believe I've got a lot to offer") then much later
responds to the question with "huh, I don't really care". He seems to
mean it. "I don't have big expectations. I don't know. It's not a silly
question . . . at the end of the day, if I'm tootling
along doing fine, then thanks very much."
Ellis won't babysit any child other than his
22-month-old nephew, Jacob, who he looked after while at Leithfield.
"Believe you me," he says, "I've got plenty of people who
support me that have got no problems about my looking after their
children."
We ask a blunt question: do you miss kids? "Do I miss children?" he
repeats, falling quiet.
"Off the record?" No, on the record.
After a pause, he answers: "Children gravitate towards me. Animals
gravitate towards me. I prefer animals to children."