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November 26 1997

Pity the abuses and those abused
By John Goulter

Pity, first of all, the children. They have spent their childhood believing horrific things were done to them, and that is a blight that won't be easily removed. They began in all innocence. Mum or dad wanted to hear what went on at the creche. Soon everybody else wanted to hear. The consequences just went on and on.

Pity, too, the parents. The Christchurch Civic Childcare Centre was the best they could find. The other parents were teachers, social workers, professionals who could afford the best. They wouldn't have chosen the place lightly. For years, it seems to work. The children are happy, and there are no more than the normal ups and downs of any committee-run outfit.

Then worries begin to emerge. The phone is ringing with dreadful stories. Meetings are called. Experts arrive to tell you about the signs. They warn you to watch for denial, which can be a victim's way of coping. Then the horror is out in the open: child sex abuse. The experts say it's more prevalent that you'd ever believe. They have overseas evidence. It fits a terrible pattern, and it's happening here in Christchurch.

You've been told not to, but you can't help but ask your children more. What do you mean, he took you for a walk? What did he do then? Where did he touch you?

It all adds up, especially when, against your liberal, non-judgmental better self, you've always felt iffy about that guy at daycare who seemed a bit over the top. Pity, too, the cops. They've been told for years they're insensitive, not in tune with the reality out there in the 1990s. Experts are telling them to empathise, to believe, not to be unfeeling males. Besides, the cops have kids themselves. Anyone who'd interfere with a child is as bad as they come. Throw the book at the bastard. He deserves it. The world will thank you.

But what if it simply didn't happen? What if it all began with the obsession of a few about now discredited international literature and techniques that unearthed ritual abuse as the secret sin our out times?

All along you had a parent's niggling guilt about putting your child in care, and now this. A parent would appear brutally uncaring to disbelieve, when so many were saying yes. The trouble is, there is no way out. How do you admit to yourself that your own irrational fear created this horror? You don't. You organise. You form support groups. You hold on to the trauma because in the end, it's the last vestige of faith in yourself as a parent.

No-one set out with a conspiracy in mind. No-one wanted his or her children to suffer. No-one, it seems, started out hating Peter Ellis. They let him care for their children for years. But they put him behind bars because everyone was saying there was an unspeakable evil out there and it had to be exposed and its name was Peter Ellis.

In the outrage of those days it seemed like cruelty to the children to stop and point out that most of the allegations were beyond belief. Besides, the prosecution had the good sense to cull the most outlandish charges from its evidence in court.

The latest revelations of an indiscreet cop and jurors who should not have been on that jury are maybe just side issues. But they add to the picture of a case that has damaged everyone it touched.

The Ellis investigation and trial assumed a hysterical momentum that abandoned the usual standards of plausibility or reasonable doubt. New-age superstition, not justice, became the guiding principle.

Pity Peter Ellis. At the very least, there should be a commission of inquiry, a cool reappraisal of the case. It would surely lead to a pardon.

And pity, in the end, the children who really are abused every day. They do not make much news. Their abuse is not ritualistic or satanic, and most often it happens at home. They do not have support groups. They may contract syphilis or worse as toddlers. They may grow up to be abusers or misfits. They may be just unhappy.

If one of these children goes ignored because a bunch of others lost their grip on reality, we will have made an even bigger injustice.