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The Press
September 20 1997

Counselling
Letter by G Waugh, Auckland

Comments by Judge Erber about ''inflicting counselling'' on a six-year-old girl (September 10) have drawn fire. By putting the value of counselling in perspective, Judge Erber has brought a refreshing viewpoint to our attention. Recent research suggests that counselling can be counter-productive and damaging. Much to the chagrin of counsellors, some who are sexually abused do not suffer permanent or serious damage.

Counselling has become an overrated panacea. The definition, claimed effects, and prevalence of sexual abuse have been vastly over-stated. Poorly trained counsellors purvey misguided belief systems, and do unnecessary damage to children and families.

As many involved in child custody, access, and sexual-abuse disputes will attest, counselling inflicts institutionalised abuse on children, under the cloak of officialdom and self-proclaimed superior knowledge. For the sake of the children, counselling and psychological interviews should not be automatically prescribed. Judge Erber was right. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

 

 

 

 

The Press
September 10 1997

Parent praised in abuse case

A 20 year-old farm worker was yesterday sentenced to eight months periodic detention and 12 months supervision for performing an indecent act on a six-year-old girl.

Jeremy Kyle Kilpatrick, 20 (Kerry Flood), admitted the charge. A condition of the sentence is that Kilpatrick complete a sexual offenders programme.

Christchurch District Court Judge Stephen Erber praised the girl's mother for not ''inflicting'' counselling on her daughter after the abuse. Judge Erber said the abuse in March this year was a one-off incident and involved nothing worse than touching, but the court was concerned about the effect on the girl.

'The mother seems to have been extremely sensible and the girl hasn't had counselling inflicted on her so as to bring matters back to her recollection,' the judge said. There seemed a good chance there would be no adverse effects.