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May 25 2006

Internet dater found not guilty of sexual violation
NZPA

A man accused of sexually violating a woman he met on an Internet dating website was last night cleared of all charges.

After a two and a half day trial at Wellington District Court a jury found the man, who has name suppression, not guilty of three counts of sexual violation by unlawful sexual connection.

The man, 44, had met the complainant, a professional woman in her 40s, on NZDating.com, where both had set up profiles.

After exchanging e-mails and talking on the phone the complainant agreed to let the man come to her house in suburban Tawa on the morning of Sunday, May 15 last year.

She told the court she preferred to meet people first in a cafe or other public place, but agreed to meet the man at her house after he repeatedly assured her he could be trusted.

She claimed shortly after arriving he asked her if she was horny and when she said no, pushed her down on the couch and sexually violated her three different ways.

The accused said he had made it clear he was only coming around for sex and the complainant was happy with that.

He said she enjoyed it, was a willing participant and when she said what they were doing was not right for her he stopped and left.

The pair had talked about sex in earlier e-mails and the night before had engaged in phone sex.

In his closing arguments defence lawyer Mike Antunovic said the woman's complaint was false and she was not credible.

"What she told you is inherently unbelievable."

He said there had been no evidence that the jury could rely on to find the accused didn't believe the woman had consented. He referred to e-mails between them, the phone sex and her behaviour during the incident – she had not resisted him and had helped him take off her jeans.

"What's he supposed to think?"

Crown prosecutor Kate Feltham said the complainant was an articulate, mature woman and it was "abundantly clear" she had not consented.

She had showed interest in the accused and thought sex may evolve over time.

"But she didn't want sex with him that day, particularly within minutes of him walking through the front door."

By contrast the accused wanted sex and sex only, she said.

"Not only did he want sex, he was determined and persistent in getting it."

The complainant should not have agreed to meet him at her home but sadly had let her desire to meet someone for a long-term relationship override her sense of judgment, Ms Feltham said.

Summing up the case to the jury Judge Chris Tuohy asked them not to be prejudiced by any views they may have on Internet dating.

To be successful the Crown had to prove on each of the charges that there was a sexual connection without the woman's consent or without a belief on reasonable grounds that she had consented.

The jury of eight men and four women deliberated for more than seven hours before returning not guilty verdicts on all three charges.