Allegations of Sexual Abuse

False Allegations

Nick Wills



Truth
July 7, 2000

How false complaints can destroy lives
by Leslie Watkins



A Wellington judge last week told a man whose life was wrecked by a false violation complaint--from a woman who was jailed for perjury--that he deserved substantial compensation. But the woman is too poor to pay. Les Watkins finds this man's ordeal is typical of those falsely accused of sexual crimes.



Sam's claims he was sexually abused as a four-year-old put his father behind bars.

Six years later he asked his mother a startling question: "Does God know if you are telling lies?"

When she said "yes" he tearfully confessed he had lied about him and his brother having been sodomised.

But by then their father, Roger Smythe, had served nine months of a six-year jail sentence for paedophilia.

A retired judge decided the boy had been bulldozed into lying by a therapist.

Smythe's convictions were quashed and he was freed after serving nearly 15 months. Proving his innocence had cost his parents $60,000.

This case is typical of the hundreds documented by Casualties of Sexual Allegations (COSA).

"Similar ordeals are suffered by a vast number of other Kiwis," says Gordon Waugh of COSA. "The proof is in our files but to protect the victims--such as Roger and his family--we change their names when going public."

Was Christchurch Civic Creche worker Peter Ellis--given 10 years in 1993 for abusing kids--also wrongly convicted?

His supporters include former MP Rana Waitai, who has had 31 years' experience as a police commander.

Waitai believes Ellis is the victim of "an almost unbelievably bizarre abortion of justice."

The truth should be clearer after August, when former Chief Justice Sir Thomas Eichelbaum reports on his investigation to Justice Minister Phil Goff.



Rude

Roger Smythe's ordeal began after Sam was caught playing "rude games" with other boys and influencing his young brother to do the same.

"His mother took him to a therapist who worked at the Catholic Family and Community Services," says Waugh.

"Even before she first met Sam, the therapist clearly believed his behaviour was probably due to him having been sexually abused."

Roger, she felt, was very likely the offender.

Even though Sam persistently denied having been sexually abused, Waugh says the social worker kept asking him about possible molestation.

"Eventually, she claimed Sam had complained about pain in his bottom and referred him to a hospital for assessment. The findings were normal and a doctor's report said Sam had never complained of a sore bottom.

"Later, the therapist also saw Sam's brother, Matthew, telling them both she would guess what their father had done to them in the shower and they could tell her if she was right.

"She quizzed Sam about a number of scenarios including him being sodomised by his father. The boy repeatedly denied it, but finally gave in and said `Yes, that's what Dad did'.

"She did the same with Matthew," says Waugh. The child kept insisting nothing wrong had happened but also eventually agreed he'd been sodomised.



Jail

Roger had been in jail nine months when both boys confessed to having lied.

"This man's marriage broke up and he now lives with a new partner," says Waugh.

"The two boys stay with them at weekends and holidays, and Roger says the years apart from his sons are fading like a bad dream."

There has been no such happy ending for other wrongly accused men.

Graham, for instance, is now 73. For him, the pain is permanent. He was accused of violating his step-daughters when they were 13 and 14.

"He had overwhelming evidence to disprove the allegations but found himself pre-judged guilty and taken to court," says Waugh.

The older girl admitted she had made similar allegations against other men, and the younger one later admitted the allegations were untrue.

"Graham's wife was always sure they were false," says Waugh. "She believed her daughters resented her marriage."

Graham was found not guilty, but his defence cost him his life savings.

Legal fees also swallowed the $30,000 compensation Hamilton law student Nick Wills, 22, eventually received from the police and the firm that sacked him after he had been falsely accused of rape.

Police had failed to check his alibi, medical evidence was inconsistent, and there were huge flaws in the woman's story.

Wills has described the resulting "deep personal scars"--he became uneasy around women and felt the need to always have an alibi.

"We are rightly appalled by the ordeals of those people--male and female--who are sexually assaulted," says Waugh. "But society needs to recognise that hundreds of those accused are also tragic casualties."

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CAPTION: SET UP: Some children appear to have been bulldozed into "confessing" to being sexually abused by their therapists. PHOTO: KEITH SCOTT

WRONGED? Supporters believe Ellis_pictured here with mum Lesley_is a victim.